How cool is this???

I don't do the Technique Lovers Challenge over on Splitcoast very often, but I simply could not pass up this weeks challenge. (Get the info here.) This was much easier than I thought it would be and is so striking!! I guess it pays to try new things every once in awhile!

Papers and sentiment from Stampin Up, ribbon from Offray.

Enjoy!

Welcome to Holland

People have asked about a few of the links on my sidebar. One is to the Autism Society of America and one is to cleftAdvocate - both very dear to my heart. See, I am a mother to one of those wonderful children from Holland. Here is the essay for those of you who are not familiar with it:

Welcome To Holland by Emily Perl Kingsley

I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this......

When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.

After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."

"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."

But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.

The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.

So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.

It’s just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.

But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."

And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away... because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss.

But... if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.

And now my story:

My son was born 5 years ago last November. After a previous 20 week miscarriage, I was terribly paranoid throughout the pregnancy. When I went in to labor at 34 weeks, I was understandably upset. After 36 hours trying to stop labor without success, my DS was born with a unilateral cleft lip and palate. This is detectable on ultrasound, but we did not know. At that point I realized that I would be traveling to Holland.

G* had his first surgery at 3 months to repair his cleft lip. He sailed through surgery and recovery like a champ. Figuring I was leaving Holland behind me (except for a few occasional surgeries in the future), I started planning my trip to Italy again.

At age 2, G* was assessed by the Early Childhood intervention team from my local school district. I thought it was rather unnecessary, but is a common practice for children with cleft lip/palate since they frequently require speech therapy. At that assessment, the team recommended that we have G* see an ENT dr. They were concerned with his hearing.

After a visit to the ENT, it was determined that G* had significant fluid build-up in his inner ear and would require ear tubes - no biggie!!

G* was also receiving speech therapy through the school district since he was delayed in his speech (since he couldn't hear very well!!) He continued with speech therapy for 2 year until the dreaded A word was mentioned: Autism. G* was diagnosed with ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) in the spring of 2006. For the most part, he will live a normal life - just with some added challenges.

My plans for Italy are on permanent hold. He is a spectacular child, truly the greatest gift I have ever been given and I am a better person for being his mother. But I don't wear the rose colored glasses all the time. I won't lie - it's HARD.

So this card is for you moms that are visiting Holland. I know you can do it!!

A quick card...

Masculine cards are always hard for me. I love this image from TAC (The Angel Company), but it is now retired. I got a few images to play with, so I'll be OK.

This was created for the color challenge on Splitcoast stampers: Wild Wasabi, Blue Bayou and Barely Banana. I love the In Color Wild Wasabi, so this challenge was right up my alley. I knew I wanted to use the truck image.

I colored the truck with all sorts of colors to try and give it depth. I'm not the best watercolorer in the world, but I enjoy it and that's what really matters, right? I used my ticket corner punch on the corners and added some black brads. I just love how brads look with the ticket corner punch. So simple but really cool looking!

I wanted to add a sentiment, but the matted main image was rather large and really didn't leave any room for a sentiment. I decided to put the sentiment on vellum and layering it over the image. I think it looks OK - not the best, but the best I could come up with! I ended up tearing the vellum strip because I couldn't get it to cut without tearing. I figured if it was going to tear so easily, I might as well go with that look.

And on another note........
I stopped at my LYS (Local Yarn Shop) this morning. After about an hour in the store drooling over all the lovelies, I ended up with a fabulous celery green heather and a darker pine green heather. I'm planning another felted bag, but this time more like a clutch - no long handle. The base of the bag will be the celery color with a pine green handle. I haven't decided if I want to make the base pine green too, but I'm not sure that's the next project I'll be knitting.